Private first. Shared only with consent. Practical after insight.

The experience moves from individual reflection to consented couple summaries, then into conversations, agreements, experiments, and revisit dates.

Consented couple summary

Alignment with privacy intact

Summary only

Future alignment

Uncertain

compared

Person A summaryPerson B summary

Conflict repair

Moderate

compared

Person A summaryPerson B summary

Children

Different

compared

Person A summaryPerson B summary

Critical issues appear separately before any aggregate interpretation.

The path

Every step is designed to make the next conversation easier while protecting individual privacy and agency.

Each person reflects individually. Your partner does not receive your raw answers.

See readiness patterns, reliability limits, perception assumptions, and critical issues based on your answers.

Before a couple report, each partner sees what summary-level information could be shared.

When consent is present, the report shows alignment, differences, perception gaps, and critical issues.

Structured prompts help you talk about decision-relevant topics without forcing resolution.

Capture what you agree on, what is still unknown, and when you will return to the decision.

Consent model

A partner invitation does not expose answers. A couple report requires consented, previewed summaries.

Raw individual answers are private by default.

See what could be shared before consenting.

Couple reports use consented summaries and allowed comparisons.

Guided conversations protect pace, agency, and privacy.

Start entry point

Begin privately. Invite a partner only when you are ready to compare consented summaries.